Few Steps Required for Marriage.
In the board daylight I had walked down the busy road of Brigade Road in Bangalore as people of both sexes were walking to and fro and then an idea struck me on that I needed to write on and that is of marriage.
Preferences in marriage of both parties may not match as they may go on varying.A liking for each other is a must and both must be loved and respected. The other aspect that stands ground is caring or concern for each other and also they need to spend time together. Therefore togetherness does play an important role in marriage. Both need to be trustworthy of each other and should not be doubtful or suspicious. Compassion is yet another necessity for marriage. At certain times compromise does play a role i.e. certain things have or need to be discussed or negotiated upon under a calm and not under an angry atmosphere. Certain adjustments may have to be carried on too in matters relating to income and expenditure of the household, or dividing the work between them, or spending time together, or looking after the children, and many other things. Sacrificing on some things by both the boy and the girl may be needed at certain times before or after they get married too or for their own children.
Last but not the least, the thing we least do remember is the aspect of forgiveness. Forgiveness is necessary for the success of marriage in the long run as disagreements may arise on but they should be solved through talking to each other.
To add on these factors do hold good before and after marriage also as these are the essential elements needed for the marriages to be successful.
Saturday, November 17, 2007
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